{"id":1460,"date":"2010-02-08T19:07:48","date_gmt":"2010-02-08T19:07:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.necessities.info\/archives\/1498-guid.html"},"modified":"2026-02-09T15:45:58","modified_gmt":"2026-02-09T14:45:58","slug":"funderingar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/2010\/02\/08\/funderingar\/","title":{"rendered":"Funderingar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/farm5.static.flickr.com\/4016\/4332758806_a44674a316_o.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox noopener\"> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/farm5.static.flickr.com\/4016\/4332758806_c017a4bb5b.jpg\" alt=\"Min Amaryllis\" width=\"803\" height=\"636\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Fick ett brev fr\u00e5n Tyskland idag och denna g\u00e5ngen var det betydligt st\u00f6rre text, s\u00e5 vi kunde \u00f6vers\u00e4tta det sj\u00e4lva efter lite klurande. Det \u00e4r att meningarna blir v\u00e4ldigt omv\u00e4nda och d\u00e5tid och nutid mixas ihop. Hon har har varit sjuk i vad vi fick till b\u00e4ltros ( Kopf-Gurtelrose ) som tydligen kan s\u00e4tta sig vid \u00f6gonen ocks\u00e5! Jag har annars h\u00f6rt att man kan f\u00e5 det runt magen. Detta \u00e4r n\u00e5got hon har haft problem med i m\u00e5nga \u00e5r. Skall kolla med en p\u00e5 jobbet s\u00e5 jag inte \u00e4r helt ute och cyklar.<\/p>\n<p>Sen fick jag sjukhuspappret p\u00e5 min bror n\u00e4r han f\u00f6ddes och det var uth\u00e4mtat f\u00f6r 5 \u00e5r sedan. Hoppas verkligen inte att anledningen de inte pratar med varandra \u00e4r f\u00f6r att de dolt en massa. Det h\u00e4r nedtystandet som mina f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar k\u00f6rde med i alla \u00e5r, och alla funderingar man hade som man bara kunde prata med brorsan om, var ganska jobbigt. N\u00e4r han dog k\u00e4nde man sig s\u00e5 f\u00f6rbaskat halv, allt st\u00e4llde sig p\u00e5 kant och det k\u00e4ndes som man skulle explodera.<\/p>\n<p>Av en slump tittade jag p\u00e5 V\u00e4rldens adoptioner som g\u00e5r p\u00e5 kanalfakta. Det handla om ett par som ville adoptera en \u00e4ldre pojke p\u00e5 5 \u00e5r. De var lite os\u00e4kra f\u00f6r de hade h\u00f6rt att \u00e4ldre barn inte f\u00e4ster sig s\u00e5 vid sina nya f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar! Hmm! Beror ju p\u00e5 hur man blir bem\u00f6tt! Tystnade om ens ursprung skapar bara gigantiska h\u00e5l. \u00c4r man \u00f6ppen blir ju \u00e4ven barnet oftast \u00f6ppen. Men n\u00e4r den h\u00e4r lille pojken skulle ta farv\u00e4l av sin biologiska storasyster var de nya f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna definitivt inte beredda p\u00e5 sm\u00e4rtan i storasysten. De hade innan pratat om hur fint han kommer att passa in i deras familj! Hans nya syskon o.s.v , hur bra han nu skulle f\u00e5 det. De hade inte t\u00e4nkt p\u00e5 vilken sm\u00e4rta det innebar f\u00f6r hans biologiska familj. Oftast fins det ju en orsak till att man tar ett beslut om att adoptera bort.<\/p>\n<p>Jag har lite blandade k\u00e4nslor f\u00f6r det h\u00e4r. Visst skall folk adoptera men jag hoppas verklige\u00a0\u00a0 <span style=\"color: #000080;\">att r\u00e4tten om att veta sin<\/span><span style=\"color: #000080;\"> ursprung <\/span>f\u00f6ljs b\u00e4ttre. F\u00f6r min del \u00e4r det v\u00e4l tur att mamma blev s\u00e5 senil att jag fick se en s\u00e5 mycket mjukare sida av henne och att jag var hos henne s\u00e5pass mycket under de sista \u00e5ren.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fick ett brev fr\u00e5n Tyskland idag och denna g\u00e5ngen var det betydligt st\u00f6rre text, s\u00e5 vi kunde \u00f6vers\u00e4tta det sj\u00e4lva efter lite klurande. Det \u00e4r att meningarna blir v\u00e4ldigt omv\u00e4nda och d\u00e5tid och nutid mixas ihop. Hon har har varit sjuk i vad vi fick till b\u00e4ltros ( Kopf-Gurtelrose ) som tydligen kan s\u00e4tta sig &#8230; <\/p>\n<p class=\"read-more-container\"><a title=\"Funderingar\" class=\"read-more button\" href=\"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/2010\/02\/08\/funderingar\/\" aria-label=\"L\u00e4s mer om Funderingar\">\u2665 L\u00e4s mer \u2665 <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":32415,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advgb_blocks_editor_width":"","advgb_blocks_columns_visual_guide":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4321],"tags":[921],"class_list":["post-1460","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-familjen","tag-familjen-2"],"author_meta":{"display_name":"Ingalill Sj\u00f6gren","author_link":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/author\/nyadmin\/"},"featured_img":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/4332758806_c017a4bb5b-300x238.jpg","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/02\/4332758806_c017a4bb5b.jpg","coauthors":[],"tax_additional":{"categories":{"linked":["<a href=\"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/category\/familjen\/\" class=\"advgb-post-tax-term\">Familjen<\/a>"],"unlinked":["<span class=\"advgb-post-tax-term\">Familjen<\/span>"]},"tags":{"linked":["<a href=\"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/category\/familjen\/\" class=\"advgb-post-tax-term\">familjen<\/a>"],"unlinked":["<span class=\"advgb-post-tax-term\">familjen<\/span>"]}},"comment_count":"0","relative_dates":{"created":"Publicerad 16 \u00e5r sedan","modified":"Uppdaterad 5 m\u00e5nader sedan"},"absolute_dates":{"created":"Publicerat den 8 februari 2010","modified":"Uppdaterad den 9 februari 2026"},"absolute_dates_time":{"created":"Publicerat den 8 februari 2010 19:07","modified":"Uppdaterad den 9 februari 2026 15:45"},"featured_img_caption":"","series_order":"","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1215,"url":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/2009\/09\/07\/fick-brev-fran-fralsningsarmen\/","url_meta":{"origin":1460,"position":0},"title":"Fick brev fr\u00e5n Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n","author":"Ingalill Sj\u00f6gren","date":"7 september 2009","format":false,"excerpt":"Fick brev fr\u00e5n Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n ang\u00e5ende s\u00f6kande efter min biologiska mamma.\u00a0 Blev s\u00e5 himla stressad n\u00e4r jag s\u00e5g att det var lika platt och el\u00e4ndigt som beskedet att min biologiska pappa var d\u00f6d. Givet vis fick jag upp det s\u00e5 jag l\u00e4ste att nu \u00e4r \u00e4rendet avslutat! Men Tyska\u00a0 Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n hade\u2026","rel":"","context":"I \u201dFamiljen\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Familjen","link":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/category\/familjen\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/3897526836_89dbd69663_o.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/3897526836_89dbd69663_o.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/3897526836_89dbd69663_o.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x"},"classes":[]},{"id":577,"url":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/2008\/09\/15\/en-stilla-fundering\/","url_meta":{"origin":1460,"position":1},"title":"En stilla fundering!","author":"Ingalill Sj\u00f6gren","date":"15 september 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"Dagens bild \u00e4r p\u00e5 en gummib\u00e5t. Jag s\u00e5g den h\u00e4r gummib\u00e5ten n\u00e4r vi var och promenerade runt i Oxsj\u00f6n. Det fans bara ett hus runt sj\u00f6n, s\u00e5 troligen kommer b\u00e5ten d\u00e4rifr\u00e5n. Nu l\u00e5g den ensam och \u00f6vergiven l\u00e4ngs kanten med \u00f6lburkar sl\u00e4ngda framf\u00f6r sig. Det blir ju att man funderar\u2026","rel":"","context":"I \u201dDagens bild\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Dagens bild","link":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/category\/fototeman\/dagens-bild\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/2858079863_dc92aff2bf_o.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/2858079863_dc92aff2bf_o.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/2858079863_dc92aff2bf_o.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/09\/2858079863_dc92aff2bf_o.jpg?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":8371,"url":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/2010\/11\/28\/1-advent\/","url_meta":{"origin":1460,"position":2},"title":"1 Advent","author":"Ingalill Sj\u00f6gren","date":"28 november 2010","format":false,"excerpt":"Wow! Rosa kom upp men v\u00e4rldens s\u00f6taste Advents present. Egen m\u00e5lade tallrikar och ljusstakar :)\u00a0 Rosa \u00e4r s\u00e5 himla duktig p\u00e5 att m\u00e5la p\u00e5 porslin och glas och har flera l\u00e4ckra glas i olika varianter.\u00a0 Tusen Tack Rosa f\u00f6r den j\u00e4tte fina presenten. Tur Rosa kom upp,\u00a0 jag har k\u00e4mpat\u2026","rel":"","context":"I \u201dFamiljen\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Familjen","link":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/category\/familjen\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/adve-1.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/adve-1.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/adve-1.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/11\/adve-1.jpg?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":980,"url":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/2009\/05\/08\/trodde-jag-var-forberedd\/","url_meta":{"origin":1460,"position":3},"title":"Trodde jag var f\u00f6rberedd!","author":"Ingalill Sj\u00f6gren","date":"8 maj 2009","format":false,"excerpt":"F\u00f6r ett tag sedan tog jag kontakt med Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n som letar upp sl\u00e4ktingar om man \u00e4r adopterad. Har letat f\u00f6rut men bara sprungit in i en v\u00e4gg. Sekretessen \u00e4r lite annorlunda i Tyskland. Jag har f\u00e5tt tv\u00e5 brev fr\u00e5n min biologiska pappa f\u00f6r \u00f6ver 20 \u00e5r sedan men s\u00e5 blev\u2026","rel":"","context":"I \u201dFamiljen\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Familjen","link":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/category\/familjen\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/IMG_3694.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/IMG_3694.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/IMG_3694.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/IMG_3694.jpg?resize=700%2C400&ssl=1 2x"},"classes":[]},{"id":359,"url":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/2008\/05\/24\/mamma\/","url_meta":{"origin":1460,"position":4},"title":"Mamma","author":"Ingalill Sj\u00f6gren","date":"24 maj 2008","format":false,"excerpt":"Idag somnade mamma in stilla och fint. Ingmarie hade f\u00e5tt besked av sjuksystern p\u00e5 avdelningen att det var dags f\u00f6r vak p\u00e5 natten och hon undrade hur vi ville g\u00f6ra. 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