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F\u00f6r ett tag sedan tog jag kontakt med Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n som letar upp sl\u00e4ktingar om man \u00e4r adopterad. Har letat f\u00f6rut men bara sprungit in i en v\u00e4gg. Sekretessen \u00e4r lite annorlunda i Tyskland. Jag har f\u00e5tt tv\u00e5 brev fr\u00e5n min biologiska pappa f\u00f6r \u00f6ver 20 \u00e5r sedan men s\u00e5 blev det tyst och \u00e5ren g\u00e5r.<\/p>\n
Har f\u00e5tt brev fr\u00e5n Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n med j\u00e4mna mellanrum och s\u00e5 fick jag ett i dag som var mycket tunnare. Det stod att han d\u00f6tt f\u00f6r vad de tror runt 5 \u00e5r sedan, som sagt sekretessen \u00e4r lite annorlunda. Vill jag ha mer information s\u00e5 m\u00e5ste jag sj\u00e4lv skriva till myndigheterna. Shit! trodde jag var beredd p\u00e5 det v\u00e4rsta, men det sved bra \u00e4nd\u00e5. D\u00e4r \u00e4r nackdelen n\u00e4r man skjuter upp ting.<\/p>\n
\u00c4r min biologiska mamma ocks\u00e5 d\u00f6d l\u00e4r jag aldrig f\u00e5 reda p\u00e5 var min bror \u00e4r. Det k\u00e4nns ruskigt frustrerande! Jag har ingen aning om vad han heter, hur gammal eller n\u00e5got. I bland kan jag k\u00e4nna att det var tur att mamma blev s\u00e5 senil och go p\u00e5 slutet, risken hade varit att jag blivit himla bitter annars. Vad fn gav dem r\u00e4tt att sno min identitet egentligen, att aldrig svara p\u00e5 fr\u00e5gor eller ge mig bekr\u00e4ftelse.<\/p>\n
Shit! vad jobbigt det k\u00e4nns just nu. Hur tusan kunde de s\u00e4ga att det \u00e5tminstone inte splittrade syskon n\u00e4r det var\u00a0 precis de det gjorde. Fick reda p\u00e5 att jag hade en bror till, n\u00e4r min bror som kom med mig till Sverige hade d\u00f6tt. Det sved att aldrig kunna s\u00e4ga till min bror hur r\u00e4tt han hade, han mindes en bror men v\u00e4ldigt vagt. Vi hade ju en del minnen fr\u00e5n barnhemmet och andra vi varit hos.<\/p>\n
Hur tusan kunde de f\u00e5 f\u00f6r sig att s\u00e5 fort vi kom p\u00e5 b\u00e5ten s\u00e5 upph\u00f6rde det att vi skulle prata tyska och minnen, fr\u00e5gor ignorerades och tystades ner. Jag var ju inget sp\u00e4dbarn utan en fullt t\u00e4nkande 5 \u00e5ring.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
F\u00f6r ett tag sedan tog jag kontakt med Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n som letar upp sl\u00e4ktingar om man \u00e4r adopterad. Har letat f\u00f6rut men bara sprungit in i en v\u00e4gg. Sekretessen \u00e4r lite annorlunda i Tyskland. Jag har f\u00e5tt tv\u00e5 brev fr\u00e5n min biologiska pappa f\u00f6r \u00f6ver 20 \u00e5r sedan men s\u00e5 blev det tyst och \u00e5ren g\u00e5r. … <\/p>\n
\u2665 L\u00e4s mer \u2665 <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":32319,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advgb_blocks_editor_width":"","advgb_blocks_columns_visual_guide":"","footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4321],"tags":[921],"class_list":["post-980","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-familjen","tag-familjen-2"],"author_meta":{"display_name":"Ingalill Sj\u00f6gren","author_link":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/author\/nyadmin\/"},"featured_img":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/IMG_3694-300x200.jpg","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/05\/IMG_3694.jpg","coauthors":[],"tax_additional":{"categories":{"linked":["Familjen<\/a>"],"unlinked":["Familjen<\/span>"]},"tags":{"linked":["familjen<\/a>"],"unlinked":["familjen<\/span>"]}},"comment_count":"0","relative_dates":{"created":"Publicerad 17 \u00e5r sedan","modified":"Uppdaterad 5 m\u00e5nader sedan"},"absolute_dates":{"created":"Publicerat den 8 maj 2009","modified":"Uppdaterad den 9 februari 2026"},"absolute_dates_time":{"created":"Publicerat den 8 maj 2009 18:28","modified":"Uppdaterad den 9 februari 2026 15:53"},"featured_img_caption":"","series_order":"","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1215,"url":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/2009\/09\/07\/fick-brev-fran-fralsningsarmen\/","url_meta":{"origin":980,"position":0},"title":"Fick brev fr\u00e5n Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n","author":"Ingalill Sj\u00f6gren","date":"7 september 2009","format":false,"excerpt":"Fick brev fr\u00e5n Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n ang\u00e5ende s\u00f6kande efter min biologiska mamma.\u00a0 Blev s\u00e5 himla stressad n\u00e4r jag s\u00e5g att det var lika platt och el\u00e4ndigt som beskedet att min biologiska pappa var d\u00f6d. 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S\u00e5 jag \u00e5kte direkt ned till Rosa som faxade \u00f6ver brevet till sin kompis. Det roliga \u00e4r att jag har en storebror som heter Michael ( samma som sonen ) och \u00e4ven gubben och\u2026","rel":"","context":"I \u201dFamiljen\u201d","block_context":{"text":"Familjen","link":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/category\/familjen\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_2443.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1","width":350,"height":200,"srcset":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_2443.jpg?resize=350%2C200&ssl=1 1x, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/necessities.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/10\/IMG_2443.jpg?resize=525%2C300&ssl=1 1.5x"},"classes":[]},{"id":22116,"url":"https:\/\/necessities.info\/index.php\/2021\/01\/16\/slaktforskningens-dag\/","url_meta":{"origin":980,"position":2},"title":"Sl\u00e4ktforskningens dag","author":"Ingalill Sj\u00f6gren","date":"16 januari 2021","format":false,"excerpt":"Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n har hj\u00e4lpt mig att leta efter mina\u00a0 biologiska f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar och Tyska Fr\u00e4lsningsarm\u00e9n hittade mamma i Braunschweig. 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Vi skall h\u00e4mta ett lass h\u00f6 f\u00f6rst till h\u00e4starna, sen kan jag fylla transporten med skit. 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